7 Signs Of A Female Covert Narcissist #psychology #love #gaslighting #narcissist
Title: Escaping the Female Covert Narcissist's Trap Introduction: While overt narcissists tend to be overly vain and arrogant, there is another type that can be far more insidious - the covert or vulnerable narcissist. The female covert narcissist is a master of manipulation who lures you in by portraying herself as the victim, only to turn your noble qualities against you in an unending cycle of abuse. Understanding the tactics these individuals use, as well as the reasons why extracting yourself can be so enormously difficult, is crucial for avoiding or breaking free from this toxic situation. The Ideal Target: The female covert narcissist isn't just attracted to anyone. She specifically targets partners who exhibit qualities like being nurturing protectors, selfless helpers, having integrity and keeping their word, as well as being affectionate and loving. I'll refer to this as the PHIL type - Protectors, Helpers, Integrity, Loving. If you possess one or more of these wonderful traits, you are prime prey for the covert narcissist. What makes you a good, caring partner will be weaponized as a means for her to utterly deplete your independence and self-esteem. The Luring Phase: In the beginning, the female covert narcissist will seem utterly perfect - fun, intelligent, alluring and passionate in a way that is intoxicating. She'll lovebomb you by portraying a vulnerability that forms an intense soulmate connection, opening up about her life and struggles in a way she claims no one else has seen. Of course, this vulnerability is a carefully calculated ploy. She's actually gathering ammunition about your deepest insecurities, fears and secrets to be exploited later. But in this idealization phase, you'll be so convinced you've met your one true partner, your caretaking instincts will be in overdrive. and more...
Title: Escaping the Female Covert Narcissist's Trap Introduction: While overt narcissists tend to be overly vain and arrogant, there is another type that can be far more insidious - the covert or vulnerable narcissist. The female covert narcissist is a master of manipulation who lures you in by portraying herself as the victim, only to turn your noble qualities against you in an unending cycle of abuse. Understanding the tactics these individuals use, as well as the reasons why extracting yourself can be so enormously difficult, is crucial for avoiding or breaking free from this toxic situation. The Ideal Target: The female covert narcissist isn't just attracted to anyone. She specifically targets partners who exhibit qualities like being nurturing protectors, selfless helpers, having integrity and keeping their word, as well as being affectionate and loving. I'll refer to this as the PHIL type - Protectors, Helpers, Integrity, Loving. If you possess one or more of these wonderful traits, you are prime prey for the covert narcissist. What makes you a good, caring partner will be weaponized as a means for her to utterly deplete your independence and self-esteem. The Luring Phase: In the beginning, the female covert narcissist will seem utterly perfect - fun, intelligent, alluring and passionate in a way that is intoxicating. She'll lovebomb you by portraying a vulnerability that forms an intense soulmate connection, opening up about her life and struggles in a way she claims no one else has seen. Of course, this vulnerability is a carefully calculated ploy. She's actually gathering ammunition about your deepest insecurities, fears and secrets to be exploited later. But in this idealization phase, you'll be so convinced you've met your one true partner, your caretaking instincts will be in overdrive. and more...